Mother’s Day can feel like a warm embrace… or a quiet ache. For someone whose mother was kind, present, and deeply loved—it’s often both.
The world may be filled with cheerful brunches and floral cards, but when someone you love is grieving the loss of a truly special mom, this day can reopen deep sadness, even years later.
At Written Hugs Designs, we believe in honoring all parts of love—including the pain of missing someone whose presence shaped your world.
Here’s how you can support someone who’s lost a kind, loving mother this Mother’s Day:
1. Say Her Name
One of the greatest gifts you can give someone grieving is to remember with them.
Try saying:
- “I’ve been thinking about [Name] today—she was so special.”
- “I miss [Name] too. I’ll never forget the way she made everyone feel welcome.”
- “[Name] raised such a beautiful soul—she would be so proud of the person you have become.”
Saying her name brings her closer. It reminds your person that her life mattered—and still does.
2. Send a Card or Small Gesture
A handwritten card, a bouquet of her favorite flowers, or even a framed photo can say: “You’re not alone in remembering.”
You can find our unique cards grieving a wonderful mom on Mother’s Day cards
Loss of Close Mom on Mother’s Day
You had one of the best Mom’s on Mother’s Day
and share memories with her children
3. Ask What They Need (And Be Okay With the Answer)
For some, Mother’s Day is a day for quiet reflection. Others may want to share stories or do something in her honor. Ask gently, and listen fully:
- “Would you like company today, or would you prefer some space?”
- “Want to do something to honor your mom, or would it feel better to keep things quiet this year?”
There’s no right way to grieve. Just their way.
4. Share Your Memories Too
If you knew her, your memories can be a gift. Even small stories or photos can bring comfort and connection.
Say:
- “I always loved the way your mom made me feel so seen.”
- “She had the best laugh. I still hear it sometimes.”
These glimpses of her through someone else’s eyes can be healing.
5. Keep Showing Up—Even After the Day Passes
Grief doesn’t follow a holiday schedule. Text them in a week. Check in again next month. Let them know her love—and their loss—still matter beyond Mother’s Day.
To everyone missing their wonderful mom this Mother’s Day:
Your grief is a reflection of deep love. We’re holding space for both.
